Spring Fever
It’s that time of year again. Spring is just right around the corner. And with the weather being really nice outside….. a lot of us… have experienced those oh-so springtime urges. Now…. I mean get your mind out of the gutter. That’s not what I meant… well not completely. Every year, around this time when it starts to warm up, which seems to only last for about a week and then we get another fucking cold front…. Everyone…. Seems to come out of their houses more, people are more active, they start to spring clean…. Which I’ve been doing this past week with this warm weather. And I haven’t mind doing it. It needed done and I did accomplish the much bigger projects this week. But, now I’m spent and need to throw myself back into writing my seventh book.
Anyway, to get back to my point. Now, that winter’s over…. Males and females…. They tend to be more active in other ways. If anyone remembers last year when I wrote my springtime piece right around this time last year. When spring hits, it’s like getting a new toy. Someone new. Someone you find interesting. But, when that newness of your new “toy” wears off, sometimes, and I’m just stating facts. They throw that new toy off to the side and find a new toy. But let’s go backwards a little, because I’m just getting ahead of myself right now.
When it comes to that single guy and single girl, hormones play into it. When spring really hits, like truly hits us. Game over. And when that warm air really hits, and summer is around the corner, everyone’s hormones tend to go crazy. It’s fricken DNA. And once those hormones go crazy, they become very much out of control and there’s no turning back. And you know I’m not lying I’m just stating facts. And I have to say I love spring more than I love summer. With that being said, with this spring air also comes love being in the fricken air. It happens when two people vibe entirely well with each other. As I’ve said in the past years, it’s chemistry y’all.
Honestly, it doesn’t happen overnight. I mean, who am I kidding? I’m really just feeling that spring air. The older I get, and that being thirty-eight (I know, I know, I look much younger) but I’ve noticed when you vibe with someone, it either happens at an instant, when you first start talking to someone new for just a couple of days. You will be able to tell right away if theirs a spark or not. It takes us back to remembering how chemistry works, which I failed science when I was in school but excelled in English.
It’s when you hear a song, it reminds you of the person who you’re currently thinking about. (Don’t deny it, you were just doing it) Everyone does it, even guys too. And please prove to me that a guy doesn’t do that. When you finally hear that one song that makes you think of the person you’re thinking about, or the person you can’t get out of your head, it will be at the most super fricken random time, as you’re listening to it, you can’t help but smile. Like a fricken idiot. Because you’re thinking of that person and they’re on your mind. We’ve all done it.
Not only you like that song, but you want to play this song repeatedly and some of us are brave enough to send that song to the person you’re crushing on or like because you are thinking about them and you want them to know you are. But let’s go back to my previous thought. The newness of it all eventually wears off. You no longer hear the music; you no longer have those feelings it’s just gone. Simple as that. But, there are those times and moments it never goes away. But this newness, this toy, it’s nothing like we have ever had before. It’s shiny, different, something that’s completely off the wall and it’s taken you by surprise. (Not talking about a toy anymore) and this happens with males more than it does with females (again DNA) maybe I’m wrong though. And I could be.
Maybe all of this is just really out of pure boredom. Maybe it’s lust. Maybe it’s just temporary and to fill that void in your life. Or really just temporary because spring is almost here and everything is slowly starting to bloom. Whatever it may be, enjoy it. Take those chances before their gone.
Until then… As Always XOXOXO NicoleHeart
